[quote=kev374]Actually she is the one who unfriended me because she does not want to read my posts and see how much fun I am having (her exact words).
Now, the more interesting concern is if I should unfriend my long time friends (close friends I have known for over a decade) because they continue to choose to maintain a close friendship with her despite knowing what I am going through.
They also leaked all my private info to her and I am unsure if they will do that again in the future. In addition in FB if they comment on my post I believe it would be visible to my ex as well even if me and ex are not friends.[/quote]
The fact that your long time friends are keeping a close friendship shouldn’t shouldn’t matter to whether you continue your friendship with them. I would be bothered by them ‘leaking’ private info. You may want to discuss that with them and that it bothers you and risks the friendship. Remind them that you and the ex are over/the past. The ‘leaking’ is interesting because it may have been through questioning/prompting of your ex. (Disconnects to look like she is moving on, but probing your shared friends to find out the info she would have found out on social media.)
One thing to remember is that the best revenge is a life lived well (while the ex wallows in anger, self pity, etc). That she knows you have moved on and are living well may be part of that revenge..
