kev, how old are you btw? +/- a few years is fine…What I’ve noticed is that as we get older, I think guys get more concerned with this whole marriage/finance thing and when 40+ comes around, they are probably too worried to bother. Again, maybe it’s really just not the person you want to make all the sacrifices for, but that’s what I’ve seen with some co-workers in that age bracket…
I think the Orange County/LA area IS very different too. For people who have lived/worked there, I think it’s much more superficial than say SD or the bay area.
It’s nice Blogstar that things are working out great, but I think it’s because you found a great spouse able to ignore the comments/society/etc…
Like some other people have posted, it’s very ok for society in general to not look down for woman who want to get married and have kids, but the opposite isn’t as true for the guy. It’s just how society currently is.
This will change in time, but it’s really not there yet.
In the end, I think many people should probably just stay single…Maybe there’d be less divorce then to begin with…
