Kaycee, what part of the country are you in? Sorry to hear that both you and your sister-in-law are having such a hard time.
I find your comment about just wanting it to land fascinating. Simply because there is always a price at which your place will sell, you just have to find it. If we have a hard landing as alot of us predict its just alot further down than a soft one. So which type of landing would you prefer?