jpinpb, you’re too emotional about wanting to own.
With this state of mind, you’ll make a mistake that you’ll regret.
Stop looking at houses and focus on the economy and the upcoming recession and save cash. When you’re the only one with cash at the ready, that’ll be the time to buy.
Right now, people are still hoping for a Spring rebound, then up and up from there. So look at listings only for entertainment value. Don’t think you’ll find anything resembling a good deal out there.