jp, you have no idea how truly rare you and the other piggington mindset gals are. Talking to the others won’t help (not marrying them is the only defense), I have learned from posts that have gone awry with the gals talking about their upbringing and they seem to have similar backgrounds and are quite unique when compared to the general population. I’ll bet it doesn’t come as a huge suprise to you, you probably realize that when you are having lunch with a group of your girlfriends that you are smartest one in the group, piggy girls probably all feel that way at some point. Let’s hope you aren’t a dying breed and that your numbers improve with the changing ways we treat and educate young girls.