I’ve heard that frequent trips to the bank safe deposit box is evidence that can be used in court. I assume that a plaintiff can get a court order to see if there’s valuables in the box. Most people hide jewelry and valuables in safe deposit boxes. You’d be better off stashing gold in the walls of your house.
Listen to Tom Leykis: Marriage is a bad contract to enter into. If you still must get married then get a renup! (Diary of a Mad Black Woman)