Its not just think Shawshank Redemption but act that way also. Use the time you have and apply pressure where and when you can. I am hardly standing idle nor do I rely on anyone or anything to magically make things better in the future. I go crazy whenever I hear anyone say well if its meant to be, its meant to be. I dont beleive in that nonsense. If you want it to be, make it happen. Whatever changes come down the road, my kids will be taken care of because that is my priority as it was my parents. I dont need much in this word other than a roof over my head and a sense of security. I can manage that. Everything else is treat when I can enjoy it but not a necessity.
SD R,
I know you are pragmatic just like me and making good use of the opportunities out there. You will continue to. Others dont have such vision and determination.
BTW, to anyone out there if a drink doesnt bring you joy then find something that does. Life should be enjoyed.
