Irvive and Alan, I was being facetious in my posts, this thread wandered away and I was just playing it for kicks and the newfound fans/stalkers. No advice needed Alan but it is appreciated, I’ve already delved into my own distorted version of habitat for humanity and have no intention of repeating the experience. Irvine, if you weren’t on the other side of the dreaded 91 and I wasn’t already dating someone I’d offer to buy you a drink because the cold reality is that many of the braniacs on this site (I’ll take a leap of faith and include myself in order to make my point) really only shine in the presence of intelligent and real women who appreciate mental stimulation and can provide it in return. Women who have flaws, insecurities, busy lives and brains, just like us and just like you, so please don’t lose faith in us a species or lump us into one category and I won’t assume you are a lesbian, not that there’s anything wrong with that (Seinfeld joke inserted specifically for SD Realtor).