I’ve seen settling and I think women historically have done it more than men.The other side is women and men that can’t be happy with anything. From my point of view settling and gratitude are mutually exclusive. Being “settled” can understandably create the need for a reminder now and then that one is not “settling”. That’s why these threads make me go show my best side to my wife.As I do love my wife and I am happy, I’d hate to have her feel like she is settling.
Marion it looks to me like you are trying to run interference between JP and Nost. Knock it off. Just let two people have a nice exchange, WTF is right.