If pies are in the sky 28-30 would be ideal, just judging by category and what I’d like. However I agree with NeetaT in that widening the pool age wise is certainly easier if you meet them in person.
However San Diego is actually quite tough in a sense. If you are over 30, as I am now, you really don’t have as many options. I suppose that’s why meetup.com groups are popular. I’ve joined a couple, but have not yet attended any events.
I’m all about suggestions of widening the pool to find prospective mates. What I like about this community is that it tends to be self selecting for less idiots. So if I do meet women through recommendation here, they too are less likely to be idiots.
I suppose my biggest problem is working in an all guy environment and having wine and paragliding as my two biggest hobbies.
I suppose I could dangle the hook that if I meet the right woman, we could go house shopping together. Now for people who know me on this board, that is a big hook.
