If he’s upside down, then he couldn’t have made a killing the past. To me, a killing means more then ending up in debt.
People get oftentimes get married for stupid reasons. I was happy to see my little brother get divorced. The wife was pretty and nice but she was very needy and not the brightest girl on the block. Now, he’s got a beautiful, rich, smart girlfriend who’s not needy or controlling. She’s confident enough to let him do his own things and he’s happier than ever.
Marriage should be like buying a house. You’re better off choosing carefully and buying at the right time. Otherwise, you’ll end up paying for it for a long, long time. Just like buying a house, people rationalize their marriage decisions to make themselves feel better.
I’m only kidding. 🙂 Love is truly about having fun together, building a connection, being close to one another and sharing our innermost feelings.