I went from Clairemont to Carmel Valley a few years ago.
Bay Park / Bay Ho is a good suggestion, as is UTC if you want a little nicer neighborhood.
Definitely avoid houses with 1-car garages in Clairemont.
And, consider looking only only at lots that back to a canyon. They are always much nicer, live better, feel more private. Back when I was there I figure the canyon lot premium was $40K-$50K.
