I take the value added approach to life..LOL
Actually all things considered about 100K a year for wife and self ,10 year average including some realized sweat equity (not bubble money). She has a 4yr degree I quit school(not the 4th grade JG!) No pension money yet.
We are adjusting to family and both want to be near our kids until and after they start school and beyond. We both,roughly speaking, work part time and won’t hit that average for a while, maybe.