I don’t get all this cynicism. Most people know marriage is a crap shoot in this day and age. Does that mean you guys should scare the OP away from the woman he chose? If he’s smart enough to make the income he’s making, he should be smart enough to choose his women wisely. Do you men need to hold his hand?
It’s not always the woman’s fault. I married an asshole. I suffered. It’s pretty obvious Casca has been taken to the cleaners, hence the bitterness.