I don’t date anyone with children simply because I do not have any kids… I like children and I’m good around them but I don’t want to enter a child’s life and then extricate myself out of that situation if things don’t work out, it’s pretty damaging to a child.
In addition I am just not ready to have children in my life so suddenly, even though it’s just dating they will still be in your life! That’s just how I feel about it.