I am sorry CArenter, A family woman claiming to need escape from being “tired of living for other people” is very much playing the victim. Nobody made her get married to that sperm donor and have babies. OMG. I think people would have to have other reasons, selfish or not, because this excuse is shameful. Better to just say anything else as a reason.
I can’t speak to your wedding vows but “tired of living for other people” isn’t part of most couples agreements.
I do , solemnly swear that unless I get tired of living for other people…blah , blah blah…
