I agree with those who say most people can not do what TG suggest or does. It helps if you don’t want a very significant relationship of course. I never could do it with someone I felt was important in my life. I like companionship too much and would want to involve someone in my socials circles. Going slowly would probably be the best compromise.
Hats of to Bugs and people like he and his wife. I think of this as a heroic success!