here’s the reality kev…and i hate to be harsh, but ypu need to know… women want to have children with the best possible men. the really good looking, super studly successful ones….and you’re not him. at least you’re probably not her first choice. froankly, if she were creatinga fantasy team, you wouldnt make the squad.
men are different. we will literally settle for anything….
but you’ll do for her for now. i suppose. however, afetr a few issue are born, assumng they’re yours, she will be more on her feet, and also able to get financial assistance from you while she seeks better, more dominant alpha dudes. even if she doesn’t want this intellectually, she’ll wake up bored, or suddently realize she has unmet emotional needs, or who the fuck knows which way it’ll be expressed. but you, you will be dull. stifling. absurd. a little pudgier perhaps. tired.
it’s just the harsh reality of life. statistics show that 20% of the single men are having 80% of the sex. that’s who she’d really prefer. but well, you hang around. you ahve some cash. you look like a reasonable sucker…
you neeed to emulate in every way possible what a non needy winner witha lot of options appearslike.
otherwise, yourwoman will always have you in the settler/loser pile, psychologically.
