We should make it as hard to get married as it is to get divorced. People should show that they have the qualifications to have children and support a spouse.
Right now, we have sex and voila, out pops a baby. Let’s go shopping for a house, honey. Oh, wow, the Realtor says we can afford this house. If David and Jane can afford their house, then we should be able to buy one too.
That’s pretty much how people shop for starter houses.