For my last troll enabling post, I would just like to say that most of us here have the homes (and lives) we want, and, in all honestly, although we probably really don’t care if someone else gets the home (or life) they want or not, many of us have been kind enough to try to make suggestions, only to be met with rude comments, most of which have no, or very little basis in fact.
Fortunately, in the end, the final outcome of this situation will effect only you, not any of us, so feel free to take it or leave it.