[quote=FlyerInHi]Sure I understand that it’s not all looks and money. Each person is free to define his own parameters.
But if the basic premise is that people deserve each other, then I’m a loss to explain the divorce rate.[/quote]
A lot of people who deserve each other actually can’t tolerate each other or are otherwise mismatched. I shouldn’t have brought up divorce, divorce and breakups are different than water seeking it’s own level.They are not mutually exclusive at all. Scaredy’s system could help though , if one person aged better than the other he could get them to eat a lot of donuts and balance things out.