[quote=FlyerInHi]If you begin saving before your children are born, you will be financiay stable by the time they reach 18. The likelihood of all 3 kids getting accepted into Ivy League is low. They may not even apply or want to go. But you should pay if your kid wants to go and is accepted.
Excluding housing, you don’t really spend that much on yourself.
Plus people shouldn’t have kids in their 20s. They should be financially stable before having kids.[/quote]
Don’t think you are married or have kids…but I believe if that were to happen, your view (assuming you wanted to stay married), will change drastically…
Similar to those famous divorced people who say they will never get married again…and in 6 months, get hitched…
this love thing makes people do completely illogical things.
Everything is easy to say or do as a single guy…been there, but life changes drastically with kids/wife.