[quote=flyer]Just a question out of curiosity, and not at all meant to be rude–but with all of the discussion on this thread about Asian households, priorities, saving “face,” etc., I was just wondering what happens in said households if, after all of the planning, sacrifice, etc., etc, the kids end up not measuring up to the familial expectations?
What happens if they can’t get into their chosen college, or land their chosen position, or, you name it–are they ostracized forever?
I think most of us have extremely high aspirations for ourselves and our children, but we also realize things don’t always go as planned, and I hope, for the kids sake, everyone realizes that.[/quote]
Well that’s easy. You disown your kids… Just kidding.
I think we’re being sarcastic about this. You hope for the best but if things don’t go as planned oh well. In america, you can be a pretty big fvckup and still do pretty well.
