Everyone has their own level of tolerance for commute time. I used to live in Oceanside and commute to scripps poway, scripps ranch, and now Sorrento Valley. I can’t stand waisting over 30 min one way just to get to work or get home. Now, it takes me 5-10 min to get to work. It makes like so much better. So for me, anywhere north of the 56 if you work in Sorrento Valley is too much since getting home would take you over 30 minute easily.