Enorah said: “Nothing is black and white. There is no right or wrong. There is only the moment and the choices the moment brings.”
That, Enorah, is the kind of thinking that gets people into trouble. There is a right and wrong. For instance, it is WRONG to borrow money you can’t or won’t, pay back.
It is also wrong to blame all of your problems on other people. Blame the people responsible, not the folks you don’t know.