You are putting a very personal isue out on a “free for all” blog. You would never walk into a coffee shop or other location where a bunch of strangers are gathered and do that. You are going get what you get. If we want to play here,especially putting our personal issues or strong opinions out there, we can’t hardly complain about what we get. I do hope you get some good breaks going forward. I am not going to say bail or stay. It is great that you are trying ot tackle the issue from all angles. I agree with bsrharma on the moral issue. Don’t let it become a pack of demons in your head forever what ever you do. You will have bigger problems than losing a house if you do.