Divorce is a part of life. Life is pretty much all about change and adapting to it. Being static sucks. Change is not always better… I have been through it. My first wife and I threw in the towel after 2 years. We had lived together 6 years before that. It was pretty amicable and she didn’t take me to the cleaners or anything like that. It was a relationship that didn’t work out for alot of reasons. The divorce certainly did not leave me hating women.