Coming off a divorce, I’d guess that your needs now won’t reflect your needs in two years. This is a time of change for you and will likely continue to be for a while. Flexibility is key. Don’t give away your flexibility. The cost of doing so is too high.
We should make posters start posts like this with “HI, my name is Oxford and I’m a Iwannabuyahouse-aholic”
Really. There’s alot of them out there and they need our support.