Call me a snob if you will but my guess is you wont be thrilled East County life. People on the East Coast tend to be accustomed to longer commutes, public transportation and much heavier traffic than we have here. Just check out Scripps Ranch (92131) which isnt far from El Cajon commutewise and more likely to be in line with what you like. You would probably like 4S Ranch/Rb (92127/92128) also. The commute isnt bad because you can take 15 South and once you get to the 52 East it should be clear sailing against traffic.