[quote=CA renter][quote=kev374][quote=scaredyclassic]here’s the reality kev…and i hate to be harsh, but ypu need to know… women want to have children with the best possible men. the really good looking, super studly successful ones….and you’re not him. [/quote]
What the heck are you talking about. There are a line of women wanting to have kids with me..they are just not the women I want to have kids with.
Both my ex’es wanted to marry and have kids with me ASAP. I was the one who broke it off. My ex before my current ex even proposed to ME…complete turnoff but she ASKED ME to marry HER.
When I said I am not meeting women, I meant I am not meeting the women that gives me the 100% confidence to marry them and have kids, it’s always women who have a ton of baggage and not obvious baggage but the type who seem very normal on the surface but you find out only months or years later that there is some serious issue.
I don’t know what exactly you are implying, whether it is an insult to me or not. I do consider myself successful, educated, financially stable and socially presentable. In addition I have a ton of diverse interests and personal accomplishments in many of my hobbies. In term of male appeal I certainly would consider myself much higher than median.
In any case, this post was about my ex and her ridiculous baggage. When did it become about my dating appeal…LMAO!
And for the record, I know tons of women, even gorgeous attractive women, who have children with men I would consider complete trash. So please, your comment is absolutely ridiculous![/quote]
Kev, I’m reading this as one of scaredy’s tongue-in-cheek posts. He’s intelligent and witty, but he often posts things that are meant more to provoke thought than to make a point, IMHO.
Do not be offended by what he says.
I would also add that I disagree very much with what he’s saying here. Decent women will NEVER want to be treated like dirt. If a man dissociates himself from a woman and her feelings, he will either trigger a psycho response (if she really, really loves him and was convinced that he loved her, too, but is now pulling away), or she will dump his ass. The stuff scaredy is posting here is the stuff that the losers in junior high school will try. Don’t listen to scaredy on this one; just be yourself. After all, even John Travolta has had relationship problems. 😉
Having said that, do think about what you expect from a woman and compare that HONESTLY with what you’re giving them in return. If it doesn’t match up, then you need to reevaluate what you’re doing so that you can attract someone whom you feel is more your type.[/quote]
never take dating advice from a mom, especially your own mom, but also not any mom.
