[quote=CA renter][quote=davelj]
I think equating not wanting to get married with not thinking women are “amazing” is illogical. In fact, I could – and will – argue the opposite. Not wanting to get married is an acknowledgement that women are amazing… so many of them that you don’t want to tie yourself down to just one for the rest of your life! I can’t find anything bitter or insecure at all in that outlook – which happens to be mine. There are so many “amazing” women out there that I can’t possibly imagine spending the rest of my life with just one.[/quote]
And how do the women in your life feel about your perspective? I don’t have a problem with any kind of relationship, as long as everyone is 100% informed and consents to the arrangement, but do you lie to the women in order to get what **you** want, and then dump them when you are finished, or are you completely honest and up-front about just wanting to use them for a little while?
I know some women will not object to being used, but many (most?) wouldn’t give you the time of day if you told them of your true intentions.[/quote]
“Use them for a little while.” Bwahahaha… that is rich. Reminds me of the classic Onion article:
I tell women up front that I have zero interest in marriage or kids. But I’ve had relationships last as long as six years. And I’m still friends with a lot of my exes – even some that are married. Why do those that stay, stay? I don’t know. But there must be some reason for it, right? I have found that every year there appear to be more and more women that aren’t looking for something permanent from a man. Which is good for both me and them.
