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Also, there is a significant number of desirable, married men who ARE faithful to their wives. I’ve met quite a few. It’s not all about “options.”
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I agree with a lot of the stuff in your post. Basically, yes, people are different and want different things.
However, I quoted the above passage because frankly, as a woman, you simply can’t say with any certainty at all that you’ve “met quite a few [men who are desirable and faithful to their wives].” These men don’t discuss these things with other women – they discuss them with other men. I know a LOT of men who have wives (and the friends of their wives) who THINK they are faithful to them, but they aren’t. Men who cheat (or want to) don’t discuss these things with other women (well, except for the women they’re cheating with); they discuss them with other men. Just about every man who reads this post knows exactly what I’m talking about.
