Bugs,
Thanks for saying what I wanted to but didnt because I figured I’d get crucified for it.
Juice,
If its a house you love and where you want to raise your family how much of a difference is 10K to 20K going to make in your life. My guess is not as much as buying the wrong the wrong house is the wrong neighborhood. If you really want it, come in where ever you may but dont lose it over a several thousand dollars. SOmethings are more improtant than money and from what I remember about your story, you’ll be fine what ever you pay.
SDR