Both men and women are interested in sex. It’s OK. We’re designed to be. If G-d didn’t intend us to enjoy it, she’d have designed us to work something like: we need to have sex, or we die. (Sort of like ferrets, or Vulcan Pon Farr.)
Stop conditioning women that interest in sex is something bad, evil, or “slutty.” There’s nothing wrong with being interested in sex — in fact, this country would likely be a better place if people have more time for good sex (and proper knowledge of/lack of shame about birth control).
Why the Puritanical view that sex is something people should be less interested in? The issue is CONSENT, not sex. If women were conditioned to be more clear about what they wanted and when the were interested, things would be a lot less ambiguous regarding consent.
