BG, I understand everything you’re saying, and I’m sure things will work out fine for you whether you decide to stay, or move to another location. From what you’ve posted here, it sounds like you’re in a position to make whatever choices you wish when the time comes.
My point was that, for those who are waiting for another “crash,” perhaps there will be another downturn, perhaps not, but, as you said, I seriously doubt that coastal CA (or within 10 miles or so of the coast) will EVER return to “bargain” pricing.
We’ve known quite a few people who wanted to come back after leaving San Diego, and were unable to replace what they had, not to mention the fact that many of the kids who have been raised here, cannot afford to buy here after they are out of the “nest.”
Wherever each of us decides to live–life is short–so enjoy it while you can!