[quote=bearishgurl][quote=zk]BG, your staunchest supporter writes a well-crafted, gentle post with constructive criticism, and your response is to point out where you think she’s wrong. And where other Piggs are worse than you. My question is this: Do you know you’re an insufferable boor and you don’t care? Or do you think other people are overreacting to you? Or do you see it some other way? I’m genuinely curious. [/quote]
I have personally turned in a Pigg for continual “stalking” and they were subsequently banned from the forum. And they weren’t stalking me and it isn’t who you might think it is.
Another Pigg posted behavior here that could be construed to be stalking by a third Pigg and subsequently quit doing it within 24 hrs. And again, I was not the victim but was nevertheless horrified that they would post here exactly what they did, even if they DID do it unbeknownst to the victim, who undoubtedly later read it and never posted here again.
Both of these instances were comprised of actions which occurred both on and off the internet.
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Yikes! I haven’t been on here long enough to know all the personalities. But this stuff you’re describing sounds very creepy!!
My philosophy is anytime stuff like this happens or you have these kinds of problems on an internet message board it typically signals it’s time to step back and take some time away from it. (temporarily or permanently).
Message forums should be a positive, educational and enjoyable experience. Not a creepy, weird and stressful experience. If stuff like this is happening it’s not good and probably means things are unhealthy in some way.
