[quote=bearishgurl]
So UCGal, you’re saying here that ten years ago, your now husband was 50+?, had no children and had just married (or was engaged) to you?
I take it he isn’t from SD but this doesn’t matter. This just fuels my hypothesis that there are MANY 50+ men out there who are seeking to find a spouse ASAP and begin an “immediate” family!
Pls correct me if I missed something… ;=][/quote]
He was 48 when we met and married, 49 when we had our first kid. He turned 50 about a month after our youngest was born.
He’s not typical to the guys I dated… Most of the guys who were in their late 30’s through late 40’s that I dated prior had either already had their kids with wife #1 and didn’t want more. (which is fine). Or were NOT the type I’d want to have kids with, even if they wanted them, because of Peter Pan syndrome. I don’t think my husband represents a broad stereotype… and I dated enough guys in my 30’s to say that. (I had the ticking bio-clock going. LOL).