Also, would the doctor wife have married a high-school only grad?
D/k about the doctor, but…
I know two couples: one of which is school administrator with a Ph. D. who married a carpenter who only finished HS. The other is an architect (hah, know quite a few of those) who married a roofer on one of her jobs. He didn’t even finish HS to the best of my knowledge. They’ve been together for at least 20 years.