All good points Dukehorn. I agree that at the UC schools, dropping classes if you’re doing poorly is near impossible. I know people in engr where 1/3 of the class HAD TO FLUNK (get a C- or lower) so a lot of people aren’t going to get a decent GPA if you’re in that major.
I see a shortage of males to actually marry for highly educated, wealth women actually. Most women would want someone more well off/successful, but tehre are fewer and fewer men now in that area.
All the grad schools already have more women than men and the few women making bucks will have very few men to fight over…