Agree with most of the comments. Better to just ignore it and not feed the crazy with long long discussions and many wasted hours that can be better spent on “fun” things in life.
It’s pretty clear she’s still single and upset, but she’s trying to just lure you back into the talk.
Unfortunately in life, it’s not possible to be Switzerland so you have to make a call as to which friends you want to actually keep.
As you get older and with kids, I think most people would agree that most “friends” aren’t really…and more problems than they are worth.
Sorta why people drift since they weren’t that great friends to begin with…that and total lack of time and lack of continued regular contact(as you get in school, work-maybe, etc…).