[quote=6packscaredy]He really doesn’t miss us at all. Not one iota. He has his complete own life going on. It Is really really distressing. [/quote]
This must be your first one to leave the nest.
It gets easier to accept with the second.
As for snooping, we lived by the theory “Trust but Verify”. I trusted them, but verified every 6 months or so. I used my sw knowledge to go thru back channels. Never found anything illegal or immoral, so I let the little places they stepped out of bounds go. I always felt a little bad about peeking in, but felt obligated as a parent.
