I’ve got my solo therapist too. It’s useful! Like meditation. Visit your mind.
Let’s say your net worth is 4 million. Then later it’s 5 million. Nothing will likely change. You’ll just maintain your bigger pile, then later withdraw from it at slightly higher amount. But it won’t change things. You’ll assume it could fade back to 4. Or swell to 6. But what will be different fundamentally? Same thing with chasing more higher paying work. You might spend a bit more but it won’t really impact anything. Your general sense of self and your reality will plod on unchanged, probably.