Still, I do not feel like a man. I don’t know if I ever will. Im pretty sure my wife doesn’t think Im a “real man” like her Dad. You can be strong, a decent enough lover, a steady earner, a good parent, and so forth, but I’m still not just a man, not the way her dad, or my dad was. Of course, a real man probably couldn’t stay married to her for a month. There are just so many different expectations nowadays that the type of person I and she think of as a real man probably wouldn’t make it with a modern woman in a longterm relationship. I’m not sure what I mean by this exactly, but I am definitely not confident that I am a man, in spite of my reproductive and career successes.

real men are in my mind not as malleable and adaptable…less emotional. im kind of joking…but maybe im not…

how can i be a real man when frankly i have no idea what that would be.

you see girls walking around with those THE FUTURE IS FEMALE shirts.
they might be right