[quote=njtosd][quote=scaredyclassic]also the articles say there’s no formal study, just that insurance rates for priests are the same as rabbis and other religious leaders.

target still a better bet if im going with my gut. religiosity when extreme seems more likely to be a cover for deviant sexuality, to me.but that could just be my own warped perception mirrored through my Baseline mistrust.[/quote]

I know that this is unfair, but I am pretty suspicious of ANY man who puts himself in a position to have unsupervised interaction with kids. Not that I think they are all bad, but I don’t trust my instincts enough to be sure which ones are good. Too many bad experiences – in my opinion COACHES WERE THE WORST – not religious types. And I think you’re seeing that now (Olympic gymnastics doctor, etc.). I can’t find it right now but I’ve seen a statistic that educators are worse than all the other groups and there’s even more cover up in that domain.[/quote]

men are risky. I agree. i would never trust anyone who likes kids. better to go with a kid hater, if push comes to shove.

best day care workers for me are female atheists who despise children. biased, yeah, but that’s my opinion.

that said, we had a male day care guy for years and I trusted him 100%.

personally, I can be trusted 100 %, but its never an issue because I’m wayyyyy too paranoid to be alone with anyone else’s kids