[quote=scaredyclassic]the stomach touch didnt offend me physically. i just dont want any hint of any problem so it was disturbing only in a boundary cross type way. since the overarching goal is Zero Problems, its best to.ignore and avoid.

if i touched a woman on her stomach, that would likely be offensive physically.[/quote]

Hang low , don’t make waves that’s what I am going to do. My kid is almost past the age where school is nearly completely female dominated I don’t have to go around these kind of people and the bubble they operate in. It was quite eye opening. So many things were said and done in the course of my involvement with the grade school that would have hurt a man’s career or rep and yet bringing it up would only hurt mine. Anyway there is always going to be stupid stuff.