So I stumbled across a book that deals with a lot of comments made in the gender politics part of this thread. “The War Against Boys”, seems like maybe you have read it , Scaredy? The book supports a lot of things you have been saying.
I had no idea that a certain branch of feminists were taking sex politics to grade schools with department of education funding. I thought this was only happening in colleges. I don’t think my kids have been exposed to any particularly wacky teachers in grade schools. Not against some organic gender bending myself , but to try to force boys to be more feminine is an atrocity against them.

Just in case , I am going to ask my boys if they have , or have had any teachers that seemed to be disgusted with maleness, or femaleness.