[quote=njtosd][quote=scaredyclassic]Because women bear the burden of having kids, they are kind of screwed.[/quote]

Because you constantly feel that you must compete to be a real man, you are most definitely screwed. I have never once in my life questioned whether I am real woman, woman enough, etc. i have never posted pictures of my lats, delta or traps (or whatever) to show that I measure up. And bearing the burden of having kids makes us essential. In many species, the children are fathered by approximately 5-10% of the adult males, but the opposite is never true. :)[/quote]

There is a deep truth here. You must become a man, but a woman simply is.