[quote=njtosd][quote=ltsdd]Is it true?
Is it kind?
Is it necessary?[/quote]
+1

Who do you want your son to grow up to be? If this isn’t a step in the direction you are hoping for, I’d be concerned. Almost all people who say cruel/unkind things defend themselves by saying they were joking.[/quote]

You should want your son to be able to hang with other men. This is a step in that direction.