BG, fyi, when you prevent a group of people from legally marrying each other, you’re essentially banning marriage for them.
Do you seriously think you know of every dead beat dads? Just because you don’t know of a dead beat dad with 20 kids from 20 different moms doesn’t mean they don’t exist.
There are plenty of dead beat dads who don’t pay into the system. There are plenty of poor people who take more from the system to pay for their kids than they pay into it. Do you suggest we should ban marriage for them too? Since they’re a burden to the system and have no chance in paying for their share? That’s exactly your argument as why we shouldn’t legalize marriage for polygamists? As the justices and president have stated, you’re essentially suggesting we should withheld a small group of people their constitutional right because they can’t pay their share in raising their children.