[quote=FlyerInHi]The kids would be mine, not hers since I paid for everything.

If she wants 1/2 ownership of the kids, she would need to pay 1/2 the household expenses out of her $100k salary.[/quote]

That’s exactly right….and blows the whole thing apart. It’s called a family unit for a reason. If it were treated like Carenter wants it it would be way worse for any woman not working but married to a man of means.